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Name: Julie

I've been married 4 times (divorced 3 times) and I am thinking of leaving my husband - he is an alcoholic and I'm at the end of my rope. I am tired of picking the wrong men; I think maybe I do it on purpose because deep down I am scared of commitment. I am always happier when I'm single. I want it when I don't have it, but the second I do, I want out. What can I do to stop/end this destructive cycle?


Time to get a good therapist that you can trust! Just don't expect a quick fix there either! I don't know how long you've stayed married to each of these men, but you'll need to decide to make a real committment to treatment and have the courage and patience(with the therapist & yourself) to work hard in order to interrupt your "destructive cycles."

Dr. Sandy Scantling
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