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Name: Deb

I need a reinforcement - this guy 53 years - divorced after 29 years (had 3 affairs during) and very into his kids- has so much guilt for the way we started (affair - 18 years off and on) withdraws even after we've had great sex- I am so wonderful and special and will always be to him but sees someone else he got fixed up with - has been back and forth with me and another "affair" for the last 5 years - Please validate that he will never truly be with anyone - it seems there is always some problem - my question is even with someone new that he has no history with - will he eventually be the same with her???? I recently told him I was done and wanted no contact - trying to stay strong - my friends say he will try to weasle back in - what do you think? Is guilt a big problem with these guys?

I think he will TRY to weasle his way back in. And I KNOW he will NEVER truly be with anyone. Stay away. Far away. He has nothing to offer but heartache.

Steven Carter
Relationship expert and author of 19 books, including the New York Times bestseller, Men Who Can't Love, What Smart Women Know, Getting To Commitment, 'This Is How Love Works' and his newest, Help, I'm In Love With A Narcissist

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