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Dear Steven, my Ex-cp and I were about to get back together after a week of time-out (oops I know, you'd say bad idea!!) A lil wary, I gave him MWCL to read. 2 days later, he's gone from sweet to giving me the funny aloof and silent treatment again. I admit it hurts, but i'm not that surprised anymore. I just wanna know what u think his reaction means. Does he realize he's CP hence guilty, or is he just angry at me for this "accusation"? Any chance he'd go seek help on his own?
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You were trying to change him by giving him MWCL. Bad idea. He needs a therapist, not a book. Now he's angry and you're left feeling bad. His reaction is unimportant. He has a problem and if he doesn't do something about it you have no reason to feel the least bit hopeful. Sorry. Steven Carter Read Steven Carter's guest transcripts on Power Surge. |
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