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Name: Linda

Question:
Thanks for your response. I appreciate your thoughts on the goal. Very true.

It just gets so frustrating when these ''robots'' don't get how they treat people. Turning things around, blaming, tearing us down and tormenting our minds and self esteem. This one didn't get that far with me because of the knowledge I have learned from you and your work. (thank you!!) I know this is his problem and nothing to do with me.

I guess I was looking for validation that if we ignore and we don't want them anymore then THEY can finally feel some hurt. It might not last because they have unhealthy minds and can rationalize their way out of any hurt. It's such a sad shame really, but life can go on without these ''robots''. They don't deserve us!

Answer:
As you said, they have unhealthy minds and are completely capable of rationalizing their way out of any real hurt.

Steven Carter
Relationship expert and author of 19 books, including the New York Times bestseller, Men Who Can't Love, What Smart Women Know, Getting To Commitment, 'This Is How Love Works' and his newest, Help, I'm In Love With A Narcissist

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