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Name: cindy

I am doing much better with 5 months nc and therapy and reading etc but mostly b/c I now get it that mostly it's not abt me how some people act and we can't control it. Access yr resp and then accept the rest.

Anyway, for the readers, can you address if there is a correlation between degree of cp and how often/many curtain calls? It seems to me that if there is, then the curtain calls are not abt their willingness to be in a r/s but abt their ability. Meaning the more curtain calls is not about wanting you but about their intense struggle, which shows their ineptness to be with you.

Correct. The greater the number of curtain calls, the more intense the PATHOLOGY, not the LOVE. Good observation!

Steven Carter
Relationship expert and author of 19 books, including the New York Times bestseller, Men Who Can't Love, What Smart Women Know, Getting To Commitment, 'This Is How Love Works' and his newest, Help, I'm In Love With A Narcissist

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