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Name: anon

Question:
H I Steven,
I Have been completely healed of a cp relationship (I was passive) for over a year now. Feel completely fine and ready to move on. Met a guy recently, shows interest, but I feel like he is not over the hurt from past relationship, which ended a year ago. We are in contact daily, but very shallow (short phone calls and text messages), and have been on one lunch date in two months. I asked him to stop calling once and he begged for me to reconsider, stating he has not clicked like this with anyone for about a year and is really excited about the possibility of this working out. I would like to get to know him, but don't want to scare him off and don't want to get hurt. Not sure how slow I can take it, I think this is moving really slow. What is your advice? Thanks.

Answer:
One lunch date doesn't click anything. I think he's a bit of a dreamer.

Steven Carter
Relationship expert and author of 19 books, including the New York Times bestseller, Men Who Can't Love, What Smart Women Know, Getting To Commitment, 'This Is How Love Works' and his newest, Help, I'm In Love With A Narcissist

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