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Name: mara
Question:
how does a narcissist truly suffer? Seems to me that they are better off than we are. they go on living a life others only dream of, and seem to be rewarded for being narcissists. It is hard to reconcile and convince myself that being a caring and empathetic person isn't rewarded. Don't suggest therapy, been there. Most therapists don't get this pathology. Just looking for a way to see some justice in all of this. Thanks for being on of the few who understand this madness.
Answer:
A genuine narcissist is incapable of giving or experiencing real love. I think that is plenty of suffering. (And that doesn't even mention the suffering they must have endured to develop a pathological narcissistic personality -- they're not born that way you know). Steven Carter Relationship expert and author of 19 books, including the New York Times bestseller, Men Who Can't Love, What Smart Women Know, Getting To Commitment, 'This Is How Love Works' and his newest, Help, I'm In Love With A Narcissist Read Steven Carter's guest transcripts on Power Surge.