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Name: Megan

I took your recent advice of absolutely no contact and even changed my route to work so I don't see my ex. He got engaged at Christmas so I was sure I would hear no more. Now I am getting unidentified calls on my phone. The first one the caller held on the line for several seconds saying nothing. I have a strong feeling this could be my ex. If it is what is that all about? He knows nothing of my life now. I do know that he knows I have heard about his engagement. So if it is him why would he contact me now (i.e. So soon after getting engaged)?

He is contacting you BECAUSE he is engaged. He is starting to run from his fiance. First, he runs away in his mind. Then he starts to take small actions (like contacting you). Just be glad you're not her.

Steven Carter
Relationship expert and author of 19 books, including the New York Times bestseller, Men Who Can't Love, What Smart Women Know, Getting To Commitment, 'This Is How Love Works' and his newest, Help, I'm In Love With A Narcissist

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