Q: I am worried. Have written about myself but concerned for 25 yr old son. Deserted by father, always had my love but I am not perfect. He is wonderful in many ways extremely intelligent, handsome, bent on success but always wants girls that don't want him and v/v. Will call off something right at beginning and then obsess later. It looks like sabatog to me has had some counseling. Am I over reacting? how can I help?

A: He's only 25 years old so it's hard to say what the reasons are behind his actions. Counseling is the best thing for him and I'm glad you're supporting his pursuit of that option.

Steven Carter
Relationship expert and author of 20 books, including the New York Times bestseller "Men Who Can't Love" ... and "He's Scared, She's Scared", "What Smart Women Know", "Men Like Women Who Like Themselves", "Getting To Commitment" and "This Is How Love Works" and his newest, Help! I'm In Love With A Narcissist

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